Speaking & Booking

INVITE DEBRA TO YOUR EVENT!

Let’s go deeper in healing! Debra is excited to partner with you to bring the message of healing and wholeness, in Jesus name! If you are interested in hosting Debra to speak at your church, conference, leadership team, college, or ministry group please fill out the form below to submit your information and request an engagement and you’ll hear back from our team soon!

    We are currently in the process of booking speaking engagements and events through 2027. Debra is looking forward to partnering with your church, organization, or ministry!

      Debra Fileta is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, and founder of the Debra Fileta Counselors Network. She is the bestselling author of nine books including Choosing Marriage, Are You Really OK?, RESET, and Soul Care. 

      Debra is the host of the popular podcast and nationally syndicated radio show Talk To Me where she facilitates on-air authentic counseling-style sessions with notable pastors and leaders. You may also recognize her voice from her appearances on national television and radio, including Better Together, The Kirk Cameron Show, Focus on the Family, The 700 Club, and many others. She reaches millions of people each year with the message of mental, emotional, and relational health. Connect with her on Instagram or at DebraFileta.com.

      Who typically brings me in to speak?

      Debra regularly speaks for:

        • Churches and Sunday services
        • National conferences and large events
        • Pastors, ministry leaders, and staff teams and events
        • Leadership and professional development events
        • Marriage and relationship events
        • Women’s conferences and retreats
        • Singles and young adult ministries
        • Colleges and universities
        • Debra has partnered with churches and organizations across the country such as: Saddleback Church, Focus on the Family, Fresh Life Church, Lakewood Church, Christ Fellowship, 700 Club, Better Together on TBN, KLove Radio, and hundreds more. She’d be honored to partner with your ministry as well!

      POPULAR SPEAKING TOPICS

      Debra can customize her teaching to fit the needs of your audience. Some of her most requested topics include:

      • SOUL CARE: 6 rhythms to stay filled, healthy, and avoid burnout
      • EMOTIONALLY HEALTHY LEADERS: Leading from a place of health, healing, and wholeness.
      • MARRIAGE & INTIMACY: Building stronger marriages through connection, communication, conflict resolution, and intimacy.
      • DATING & SINGLENESS: Navigating dating, relationships, and singleness with wisdom, health, and intentionality.
      • MENTAL & EMOTIONAL HEALTH: Are You Really OK? Getting real about how you’re doing mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and relationally.
      • RESET: Practical steps toward lasting change and healing from the inside out.
      • PEOPLE SKILLS: Your relationships are only as strong as your relational skills. Boundaries, Communication Styles, & Difficult Relationships, loving people well without losing yourself.
      • RELATIONSHIP SKILLS: Building healthy love through every season of a relationship.
      • TRAUMA & TRIGGERS: Recognizing your blind spots, and healing from the past so you can live freely in the present.
      • SEX & INTIMACY: building Emotional and sexual connection in marriage
      • Q&A WITH DEBRA: Some of Debra’s most engaging events include live Q&A sessions where audiences can submit their real questions about relationships, marriage, dating, emotional health, faith, boundaries, sex, healing, and personal growth. These sessions can be incorporated into a keynote, conference, retreat, or church event.

      Every audience is different. Debra is happy to consider additional topics and customized messages based on the theme and needs of your event.

       

      SPEAKING SCHEDULE

      2026 SCHEDULE

        • 01/11/26 – Life Church – Nazareth, PA
        • 01/13/26 – Propel Women: Soul Care Seminar
        • 01/20/26 – Kirk Cameron Show –  Nashville, TN
        • 02/6/26 – Household of Faith Marriage Conference – Gonzales, LA
        • 02/8/26 – Household of Faith: Sunday Morning Services – Gonzales, LA
        • 02/21/26-02/22/26 – M3 Mobilizing  Medical Missionary Conference  – Houston, TX
        • 03/10/26 – Better Together – Dallas, TX
        • 03/11/26 – Keystone Church: Staff Event – Keller, TX
        • 03/13/26-03/14/26 – Reframe Women’s Conference – Victory Church – Lancaster, PA
        • 03/24/26 – Church of the King – Mandeville, LA
        • 04/1/26 – Moms Group: Worship Center – Lancaster, PA
        • 04/12/26 – Radiant Relationships: Weaverland Baptist Church – East Earl, PA
        • 04/27/26 – Focus on the Family: People Skills – Colarado Springs, CO
        • 04/19/26 – BlackRock Retreat Center: Soul Care Women’s Event – Quaryville, PA
        • 04/27/26 – Focus on the Family: People Skills
        • 05/6/26 – Life Church Encounter Night: Soul Care – Nazareth, PA
        • 05/9/26 – Mental Health Awareness Day at Faith Christian Center – Baltimore, PA
        • 05/14/25 – Family Life Radio – Orlando, FL
        • 05/22/26-05/23/26 – FPEA Homeschool Convention – Orlando, FL
        • 08/5/26 – Focus on the Family: Serenita Women’s Event – Colorado Springs, CO
        • 08/28/26-08/29/26 – Lakewood Church: Spark Marriage Conference – Houston, TX
        • 08/30/26 – Lakewood Church: Sunday Segment – Houston, TX
        • 08/31/26 – Lakewood Church: Staff Investment – Houston, TX
        • 09/11/26 – Reframe One Night: Soul Care – Lancaster, PA
        • 09/18/26 – Book Signing at MEND Coffee Shop – Atlanta, GA
        • 09/18/26 – River of Life Church: Women’s Conference – Hamilton, GA
        • 10/23/26-10/25/26 – Winshape: Soul Care For Your Marriage – Rome, GA
        • 11/12/26 – Family Life Radio – Orlando, FL

        • 11/14/26 – NextGen Conference – Orlando, FL

      2025 SCHEDULE

        • 01/25/25 – Thrive Singles Event – Life Center – New York, NY
        • 01/25/25 – Liberty Church 9 & 10:30 Sunday Services – Soul Care – New York, NY
        • 01/25/25 – Lakewood Church Leadership Lab – Houston, TX
        • 02/14/25 – Heart of Dating Conference – Dallas, TX
        • 02/25/25 – RESET Online Seminar: Reset from Unhealthy Dating
        • 03/7/25 – Reframe Women’s Conference – Victory Church, Lancaster, PA
        • 03/11/25 – The Power of Patterns, LIVE Online Workshop with Levi Lusko and Debra Fileta
        • 03/23/25 – 03/24/25 – Lakewood Church – Houston, TX
        • 04/2/25 – Worship Center – Mom’s Group – Lancaster, PA
        • 04/7/25 – “Women Connecting” – Calvary Homes, Lancaster, PA
        • 04/8/25 – The Pastor’s Network: Soul Care – Lancaster, PA
        • 04/13/25 – Worship Center – Marriage Ministry Gathering – Lancaster, PA
        • 04/22/25 – RESET Your Parent/Child Relationship Online Seminar
        • 04/25/25 – 04/26/25 – Daughters Conference, Altoona, PA
        • 05/11/25 – Cherry Hills Community Church, Highlands Ranch, CO
        • 05/13/25 – Focus On the Family, Colorado Springs, CO
        • 08/3/25 – Worship Center – Sunday Services – Lancaster, PA
        • 09/23/25 – 09/27/25 – AACC, Nashville, TN
        • 10/10/25 – 10/11/25 – Water of Life Church: Choosing Marriage, Fontana, CA
        • 10/18/25 –  Barnes and Noble Book Signing, Lancaster PA (2-5pm on Fruitville Pike)
        • 10/25/25 – Life Pacific University  McPherson Preaching Conference
        • 11/15/25 – Summit Church Marriage Conference, Summit, PA
        • 11/17/25 – Victory Church – Staff Retreat, Lancaster, PA
        • 11/30/25 – Household of Faith Staff Retreat
        • 12/2/25 – Pulse Master Class – Online

      2024 SCHEDULe

        • 01/17/24 – Worship Center – Moms Group: RESET, Lancaster, PA
        • 01/23/24 – RESET Online Seminar: Reset Your Physical Health
        • 02/6/24 – RESET Online Seminar: Reset Your Sex Life with Gary Thomas
        • 02/9/24 – Ascension Christian Schools – Staff Development Day, Gonzales, LA
        • 02/11/24 – The Gathering: Womens, Valentine’s Event — RESET, Lancaster, PA
        • 02/24/24 – Worship Center – Choosing Marriage Event, Lancaster, PA
        • 03/5/24 – RESET Online Seminar: Reset Your Inner Critic
        • 04/9/24 – RESET Online Seminar: Reset From Clutter
        • 04/16/24 – Better Together, Tustin, California
        • 04/25/24 – 04/26/24 – ThinQ, Nashville, TN
        • 05/7/24 – Family Life Interview, Orlando, FL
        • 05/11/24 – “Are You Really Ok!” – Harrisburg for Christ, Harrisburg PA
        • 05/21/24 – RESET Online Seminar: Reset From Trauma
        • 06/11/24 – RESET Online Seminar: Reset From Church Hurt
        • 06/19/24 – Fresh Life Church, Montana — Staff Mental Health Seminar
        • 06/23/24 – Fresh Life Church, Montana – Sunday Morning Services, RESET
        • 07/23/24 – RESET Online Seminar: Reset Your Inner Child
        • 08/2/24 – Focus On the family, Colorado Springs, Colorado
        • 08/7/24 – The Kirk Cameron Show – Nashville, Tennessee
        • 09/7/24- SOUL CARE, Book Signing – Barnes & Noble, Lancaster, PA (1-4pm EST)
        • 09/17/24- SOUL CARE, Family Life Today, Orlando FL
        • 09/18/24 – 09/20/24- Christ Fellowship Church, Palm Beach Gardens FL
        • 09/24/24- Life Today – Soul Care, Dallas TX
        • 10/6/24 – Household of Faith Church – Gonzales, La
        • 10/7/24 – Ascension Christian High School – Gonzales, La
        • 11/2/24 – Black Rock Church – Marriage Event, CT
        • 11/8/24 -11/9/24 -Lakewood Church – Spark Marriage Conference, Houston, TX
        • 11/22/24 -Emotional Health Retreat with Gabe and Rebekah Lyons, Nashville TN